Dad Update

Time for the Dad update...

The prayers did it! My Dad is doing great!!

The Sunday after he went into Cardiac Arrest they started to wean him off all the drugs he was on to bring him around. The first thing they did was to see if he could breathe with out the respirator. Then they removed the tube. They wanted to know how is mental state was but with the report we were getting that he was able to identify everyone and say he wanted out...THAT was a good sign. Before I go on...Sunday was the first time I had seen my Dad since this all started. I, of course, lost it when I seen him lying there all hooked up, tube down his throat, and so out of it. Very hard to see.
Anyway, he was awake and during the week everything happened so fast. He still was without food and you could tell he was so hungry but his swallowing reflexes were not the best yet. Then they got out of bed to sit in a chair for a while. He liked that but it was still tough to see someone so independent become dependent. By Thursday he was whisked away and they put in a Medtronic Device called a Implantable Cardioverter Defibrillator. They felt that what triggered this whole thing was "electrical". In fact wherever this is in the brain, Dad did suffer some slight injury but it will heal in time. Dad was discharged out of CCU and moved to Telemetry and stayed there for a couple of days. After that he went right into Rehab. He improved so fast that he claimed his independence and was ready to go home. So last Friday he refused the wheelchair and wanted to walk out of the hospital. That he did!
He is home now. Off and on he talks with us about what had happened. He then told us that he saw a light at the end of the tunnel. Someone was standing in this light but didn't get to see who it was. I told him maybe it was someone keeping him from entering because it was not his time to go. Or maybe it was someone leading him to it. I guess I would like to look at it the other way.
Now that he is home he will be continuing his recovery with Cardiac Rehab, Doctors appointments and eating healthy. We all will be. We will take this one day at a time and thank God for everyday he gives us with Dad.

Please, Please...PLEASE!

After these last 5 days it is really starting to sink in that my brother, Tom and I used 2 person CPR to save our father. I can't stress enough the importance of taking a class. Be certified because you never know...

As of today my Dad is doing good but we still have a long road ahead of us. The Doctors say it is very positive. Will he be the same? We don't know but we will do whatever it takes to help him through this.

I will have to post an update soon as to what has happened in the last 5 days. The prayers are still needed...they are working.

American Red Cross - Health, Safety and Community Services

Dad....

This is probably the hardest thing for me to do. But I am here alone right now and need to kind of "vent", more in a sad way. This is a day I need to mark down because it will be one we as a family will never forget.

My Mom woke me up this morning saying Dad collapsed. My God! I went into actions thinking it was an injury or something. But I went out side to the porch and there we was lying there. I am not going to go into details because it's a picture I kind of want to erase. My Dad was unresponsive. I shook him, nothing. Told Mom to dial 911 now. She woke up my brother and he rushed out. Between him and I we started CPR...I started the compressions and he kept Dad's head tilt back and tried to keep his airway open. I kept these compressions going until help arrived and they took over. Again I won't go into detail as they worked on him. When he left they had him breathing and a pulse.

He made it to the hospital and then airlifted him to another with a great cardiac unit. I will have to kid my Dad for flying in a helicopter and he wasn't too wake to know it. Anyway, he did make to that hospital which is a real good sign. They said he did indeed go into full cardiac arrest. He had a very bad clogged artery. So right now they have cooled him down to keep him paralyzed, his color is good, heart rate and blood pressure normal. There was no damage to the heart. They told Mom that they do not anticipate any problems for the next couple of days. They will start the process of warming him up on Sunday and we will go from there.

The outlook...too early to tell but without the first onset of CPR and then the defib...

She's back but....

Rheeya is back. We found her at the pound. I guess she was picked up that night both dogs ran off. AND we drove around, too. After 10 days we decided to call H.A.R.T. which a our local shelter. I gave them the description of Rheeya and Digger. They told me they had a black lab/mix female that was brought in on July 26th around the County Rd 1 and 66 intersection. They told me she was the only one picked up. So where is Digger???

The next day I went down to the shelter and yep, it was her. $160.00 dollars later we bailed her out of the shelter's jail and brought her home. It is still hard to try and be happy and sad at the same time because Digger is still gone. We hope that someone has him. Either they are waiting for someone to place an ad for a reward or what... We keep checking in with the shelter to see if he has been either picked up or turned in. We just don't know where to look anymore. We are trying not to think the worst.

We are still holding out hope.....

Oh, Rheeya....

The weekend had its ups and downs. Today Barry and I loaded the horses in the trailer and took them for a ride. Reason being is because we have been working with one of the horses because she didn't like loading. When we came back we went for a 3 hour ride. Did some ditch riding to keep up on the desensitizing with road/traffic noise. Went rather well today. Kind of kept our minds off the down side of the weekend.

Barry and I took in a stray because SOMEONE we knew did not want her. We gave her a real good home and loved her as our own. My brother Tom picked a stray to save him from a jerk and brought him home. We named him Digger for the fact he sure did like to dig! Digger and Rheeya shared a kennel but the problem is that when you let those two out they would run off. Usually they would come back. One winter day they were let out and off they went. Thought they were gone for good until Barry went, 20 hours later and found them miles from home on a road. Saturday Barry thought that if they were let out they would run some and then even if they ran off they will come back. Not this time. They ran off and we haven't seen them since. Now we are going on about 30 hours and we have not seen them. Oh we went out yesterday and searched the best we could but turned up nothing. They could be just about anywhere in our area. Our worry is that we hope they will find stuff to eat and avoid getting hit by vehicles. One thing we will do is keep our eye out for them in the paper. Maybe someone would be kind enough to throw an ad or take them to HART.

We will miss you Rheeya....hope you come home soon! =(

Just Awesome....

ONE LONG RIDE
Girl with a mission traveling across state on horseback
By AMY FREDMAN
Staff intern
E'leese Madgett-Manrique is on a mission.

The 12-year-old from Buffalo, Minn., has been riding her horse all summer, which is not unusual for a girl with a passion for horses.

The difference is that E'leese is riding across Minnesota to raise money for "The Ranch," a place where soldiers can go to rest, relax and heal at no cost.

On Tuesday, E'leese rode her horse, Chips N' Salsa, a 16-year-old full-blooded Arabian, through Pequot Lakes. On Thursday, she was to ride in Brainerd, entering from the Paul Bunyan Trail at 1 p.m. and riding down Laurel Street.

"It's her mission, just like the soldiers'," said mom Kerry Madgett, who gave up her job and sold her car, house and furniture to pay for the ride.

On her 86-day trek across Minnesota, E'leese's goal is to ride 860 miles and raise $16 million for The Ranch, which breaks down to $3 for every Minnesotan.

"It's less than a cup of coffee," Kerry said. "We can't tell our military we won't pay that."

The idea came on a trip to Colorado last summer. When E'leese saw mailboxes with flags honoring military personnel, she knew she wanted to do something.

"I thought it would be something manageable, like passing out phone cards," Kerry said. "But I told her, whatever it is, be passionate about it, and passionate and horse are the same word in her mind."

The idea started as a nationwide trek, but Kerry eventually narrowed it to just Minnesota. From there, E'leese got into the act. She sent letters to area business people, who then donated the truck, trailer and other necessary items for the ride. E'leese also sent letters to top officials, including first lady Laura Bush, Gov. Tim Pawlenty and the King of Arabia.

"The Ranch," E'leese said in her mission statement, "will not be fancy, in fact it will be humble. Just like the men and women that serve their country. ... The Ranch will be a number of cabins surrounding a lodge and dining room. Soldiers can spend the day lounging around, taking a walk, going for a swim or taking a horse out for a ride. Do ranch chores or relax, read a book or have a good conversation, be our guest. For those who do so much for others, we thank you."

E'leese and Kerry envision that The Ranch will be run by volunteers, namely college students. The two already have details for The Ranch planned out, and most "come from us lying in bed at night and talking," Kerry said.

Kerry said that such facilities exist, but they date back to World War II. "They're gross," E'leese added of the condition of the facilities.

E'leese is determined to complete her journey. Saturday marks the halfway point, which Kerry said will help convince people that E'leese's summer-long ride is achievable.

"It's not just our ride, it's Minnesota's ride," Kerry said.

E'leese, who has been riding since age 9, began her trek on June 7, two days after she finished her last day of sixth grade, and if she successfully completes the journey, she will start school two days after she gets home.

E'leese's goal is to gain exposure for The Ranch. Pawlenty spoke about E'leese on his radio program, and on June 5, Rep. Michele Bachmann, R-Minn., read E'leese's goal on the floor of Congress. Also, the government has granted a congressional flag to be flown at The Ranch and the Ojibwe conducted a tribal ceremony for E'leese, awarding her and her horse with eagle feathers. E'leese also was awarded a Blue-Star Mother pin.

But E'leese still is only 12. After finishing her ride through Pequot Lakes, E'leese was most excited to dismount her horse and eat an ice cream cone.

"She really doesn't care about the media, press or fame. It's a job," Kerry said. "She gets bored giving interviews. She's 45 one minute and 12 the next."

For E'leese, "sleeping in" is sleeping until 9 a.m., which is only on rare days off. And on days off, despite her time riding each day, E'leese still chooses to ride.

E'leese and Kerry haven't been home since the beginning of the ride, and while they may be as close as 20 miles from home, the two are committed to staying on the road.

"Soldiers don't get to go home," Kerry said. "...We are doing the same thing on a much less level."

People from the mounted patrol now accompany E'leese on her ride, and one woman from the mounted patrol helps organize places for E'leese and Kerry to stay.

"They get as much credit as E'leese and I ever will," Kerry said. "Minnesota has great people.

"We're paid every day in kindness." Kerry said after tearfully telling a story of an elderly couple whose grandson is in Iraq. The couple ran from their fields to greet E'leese and donate to The Ranch. "We go to bed very rich. Dirty and tired, but rich."

E'leese will complete her ride Aug. 31 at the state Capitol. Donations may be made at www.onegirloneride.com or at any Wells Fargo bank.

June-July Celebrations

I know , I know...I haven't been on top of things for a while. Once things slow down I will be catching up on the latest things. So in the mean time......

JUNE CELEBRATIONS................

Happy Birthday to all you June Birthdays (including yours truly)

Anniversary Wishes go out to Peg and Mike. I will not even go there with how long it has been since I was the flower girl in your wedding =D LOL!



JULY CELEBRATIONS................

Happy Independence Day today!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE MAN I MARRIED!

Happy Birthday to the rest of those friends and family whose birthday fall in the month of JULY.